Five Decembers
What a recurring client relationship actually looks like.
The first time I walked into Brett and Hayley's home, I noticed five stockings on the mantle. By the time I write this, there are eight. One of them has a paw print on it.
I have been playing their Christmas party every December since 2022. Five years. I have watched the room fill up with the same faces year after year, friends and family who treat this night as the official start of their holiday season. I have watched the ensemble grow from two musicians to three. I have watched Brett and Hayley go from a couple hosting a party to a family building a tradition. And somewhere along the way, without anyone officially deciding it, this became the kind of relationship I started this company to build.
This is the story of those five Decembers.
2021: A Birthday Party and a Connection
I first met Brett at a friend's birthday party in 2021. He came up after the show and we talked for a while. The kind of conversation where you know immediately that there's a real connection. He was warm, enthusiastic, and genuinely curious about how the night had been put together. That's a rare thing. Most guests thank you and move on. Brett wanted to understand it.
A few months later, in September 2022, he texted me about his annual Christmas party. He and Hayley hosted it every year on the first Saturday of December, friends and family, cocktail style, late start after dinner. He asked if I'd be interested.
I was more than interested. I immediately pushed to bring Carlton along. There is nothing quite like a piano at a holiday party. Not a grand piano necessarily, even a quality electric keyboard creates that feeling of gathering around something, of music being the reason people lean in. Nat King Cole sounds different coming from a piano. Silent Night sounds different. Christmas songs are built for that instrument, and Carlton plays them beautifully.
There is nothing quite like a piano at a holiday party.
Brett and I went back and forth over text, talking through the layout of the room, where the band could set up, how the flow of the night would work. He sent me photos of the space. I loved that. It meant he was thinking about the music the way I think about it, as part of the room, not separate from it.
2022: Figuring It Out Together
We arrived to find the Christmas tree in the corner that I had been eyeing as the best setup angle. There was a beautiful fireplace with five stockings on the mantle, candles, garland, the whole thing. The tree was exactly where I would have put the band. Brett saw me working through the geometry of it and told me I could move the tree if I needed to.
I pulled it out carefully toward the fireplace, not far, just enough to give us the corner. I did not want to disturb the ornaments or block those stockings. We ended up angled slightly around it, which actually worked. The tree became part of the backdrop.
This is a true cocktail party. It starts late, after people have already had dinner. There are no speeches, no major moments, no formal structure. Passed hors d'oeuvres, great wine, the same service team that Brett hires every year and who I now look forward to seeing. The challenge with a party like this is that without obvious peaks, you have to create your own shape. You are designing a feeling, not managing a timeline.
We started with Nat King Cole and Bing Crosby as people arrived and poured their first drinks. Soft, warm, nostalgic. Christmas classics that nobody has to think about, they just settle into them. As the room filled up and the energy shifted, we started mixing in non-holiday tunes, pulling the temperature up slowly without anyone noticing the transition.
After that first night, Brett asked if we could play his wedding.
The Wedding
Brett and Hayley were getting married small. Twenty-five people, families only, at their favorite restaurant in town. Ceremony and dinner, four to eight in the evening. Brett reached out to see if I was available.
I was not. I had a prior booking.
But as I sat with it, I realized that not being there personally might actually be the right answer for this event. A small, intimate wedding at a restaurant does not need a full band. It needs something that fits the room, music that holds space without taking it over. Carlton, alone at the piano, playing instrumental versions of songs that matter to them, was exactly right. It left room for the imagination, for memory, for the focus to stay on Brett and Hayley and what they were beginning together.
For the dance portion later in the evening, Carlton put together a DJ set and played live piano over every track. Instrumental pop classics, Rihanna, Earth Wind and Fire, things you know in your body. Bryce could not be there. But the music could still be exactly what it needed to be. That is a decision I am proud of.
Carlton at the piano. Year three. The stockings are right behind him.
2023: Finding the Sound
The second year we set up facing the kitchen, which opened a sightline across the foyer, living room, and kitchen all at once. One speaker placement, three zones of sound. Brett and Hayley had placed the tree on the window side this year, which meant the fireplace was fully open and the band and the tree were on opposite ends of the room. It worked beautifully. The room had two anchors.
We also ran a small satellite speaker out to the tent in the backyard. That outdoor space is not for dancing. It is for cigars and quieter conversation, the cool air after a couple of hours inside. Piping the live feed out there kept the vibe continuous without overpowering it. Hidden speaker, live sound, the music following you outside without announcing itself. That is the kind of detail that nobody notices and everybody feels.
When we came back on for the dance set, we opened with All I Want For Christmas Is You. Hayley and her friends hit the floor immediately. It became a singalong. At the end of the night, she asked us to play it again. We did.
I always enjoy playing a song twice in one night. The first time it lands one way. The second time, with the room where it is now, with the drinks and the conversations and the dancing that happened in between, it lands completely differently. The song is the same. The moment is not.
The song is the same. The moment is not.
2024: The Missing Piece
I had been thinking since year one about what the party needed to complete itself. Two musicians can do a lot, but there is a ceiling on how much range you can create with the same two voices all night. When everything comes from the same source, it is harder to take the room on a real journey.
That year we invited Alyssa Jade to join us. A second female voice changed everything.
Now we could actually build the night in chapters. Carlton and I opened as a duo. After an hour I played a solo set while Carlton rested. Then Alyssa and Carlton took over, a completely different sound and energy. Then the three of us together for the dance set. When we came back after a break, the room felt like it had traveled somewhere and arrived. That is the feeling you are always chasing.
One of my favorite moments from that night was Alyssa singing Unwritten by Natasha Bedingfield in the last hour. It is one of those songs that makes everyone stop what they are doing and turn toward it. Then they start singing. Having her there to cover the Mariah Carey and the big pop moments freed me to do different things, and the whole night had a shape it had never quite had before.
We also ended that night with a hip hop set that nobody planned. Most of the guests had left, the formal entertainment was technically done, but a few people were still in the kitchen absolutely feeling it. We kept the sound system up and let it go. I was making notes on my phone about which songs were landing. I incorporated them the following year.
2025: In Bryce We Trust
Alyssa was not available in 2025, so we invited Nini Badvedze, a 2024 contestant on The Voice, to join us. She is a remarkable singer and she set the tone for the night from the very first song. A soulful female voice and a piano to open a Christmas party is one of the classiest combinations I know. The room settled into it immediately.
Carlton, Nini, Bryce, and Brett. 2025.
That year one of Brett's close friends, Justin, asked if he could sit in and play a few songs with his own friend. I said yes without hesitation. I set up a spare input line in advance and brought my cajon box drum, knowing I would want to play along if the energy called for it. When Justin and his friend stepped up and started playing rock songs from the 90s, the room completely woke up. There is something that happens when someone you know personally takes the stage. Everyone stops. Everyone pays attention. It is a different kind of electricity than a professional performance creates, and it is irreplaceable.
I ended up on the cajon for most of their set, keeping the energy together, building it toward what was coming. When we took back over, the crowd was ready. Crazy in Love. All I Want For Christmas Is You. Please Come Home For Christmas, our version pulled from both U2 and Mariah Carey. Mr. Brightside. Songs that had come in through RequestWave all night and that I had been tracking, building toward the right moment for each one.
Before the night started, I had texted Brett to run through my plan. He responded with four words.
In Bryce we trust.
That is not something a client says to a vendor. That is something you say to someone you have worked with long enough to know that it is going to be right.
What Five Years Actually Means
I have been doing this long enough to know the difference between a client who hires you and a client who trusts you. Brett and Hayley trust us. They moved their party date one year so we could play it. Brett has connected us with other clients. Hayley has told me what songs matter to her and what the room needs and she has been right every time.
This is what I started Adventure Sound Live to build. Not a calendar full of one-time bookings, but relationships. Clients who let you become part of something that belongs to them. Friends and family who start to feel like part of your year. A mantle with more stockings on it every time you come back.
I get to watch Jeff and Karen, who introduced us to Brett and Hayley, show up every year. I get to see people who do not always get to see each other, reuniting in the same room with the same music, the same service team, the same fireplace. Some of them have been coming since the first year. Some are new. The room has grown. The ensemble has grown. The stockings have grown.
Five years ago there were five stockings on the mantle. Now there are eight. One of them has a paw print on it.
See you in December.
— Bryce